Wednesday, December 17, 2008

If he has a girl friend....

Basically, if he, the one whom you target at, of cause having all good criterias and able comfort you in some ways, has a girl friend, what should you do?

Last time, i would answer that is okey, just close to him, if they are no problems in their relationship, you won't have any chance to let you break it up. So the one who control and make decision is 'he' and his girl friend but not you. You just try your best to do everything you can. At least no regret at all or wont blame yourselves by doing nothing.

Actually, it is not so clear for above statement. As a good human being, we learn respect, we need respect people, just like people respect you. However, respect doesnt mean that we should give up things that may belong to us.

So, i think we should respect and more behave ourselves. At least close to him but never let ourselves be the reason of cause for them breaking up directly. We should care him, help and close with him..

Monday, December 15, 2008

Negative

This is the 3th week after training....
Time have gone so fast.....
Feel that i do nothing, learn nothing....
Feeling stupid of stating all my blaming through net....
Just for him and my heart....
Stupid and childish...

Afraid being low profile of competence....
Afraid being lost of some people who are important to my life....
Afraid being lost myself,my soul, my spirit.....

I still cant swimming safely...
I still cant master .net...
I still cant drive manual gear safely...
I still cant live in discipline...

Oh Lord Jesus...

Thursday, December 4, 2008

I'm a part of his family

Dear lovely Kai Wen and Wei Yuet,
Haha...always wondering should i call you since you are so sensitive on people leaving...Haha..Finally i have made it after i was back from Pulau Pangkor...Everything seems ok...and i'm so excited to tell you that i have fun in Pangkor...haha swimming...and chatting...have special feels on my best friends as well...Finally, you said telling you the story after i go back(to KL)....i was touched...yes,there is a while that i'm a part of your family in your heart...Love sleeping with me on the same bed?....haha...

A kiss without asking from Wei yuen also excite me....haha...always desperate this kiss....

Wishing you two have a lovely and unforgetable childhood....a time that is no repeate but always bring much happiness...appreciate it....

Pangkor....my best friends

A 2 days 1 night pangkor is finished 2 days ago...haha..it is great...at least, i have learnt something....Obviously, i can express my love better than last time...This is quite a big different in feeling compare with last time. I can 'see' my weaknesses...I have alot of things or characters need to be changed and improved...I'm ready to accept this changes.

We are lucky people...No matter what happen, those whom we are caring are still alive and we still have chances to do something that we want to do or say....No regret after that...

These all are a part of live...make us become stronger and understanding....don't be corward to face it....When it is hurt, crying is allowed...no shamed at all...Don't keep hiding the feelings...

Sunday, November 30, 2008

幼稚

他哪来的这么幼稚?。。咳。。。
我该讲是太过认真还是怎么。。。
太高估了他的心。。。

心有点累。。。可是这才是人生。。。

他没有错,只是心胸太狭隘。

愿主保佑我的弟弟。。。

不同的乡下风情

早,
好想继续依恋着我的小窝哟,
谁知还是要陪妈妈去巴萨,
想到现在不做,我怕以后会后悔。。。。。
还是兴致勃勃的跟去了。

收车费的阿姨,
她的数学还真得令我灰解。。。。

咦,好熟悉的巴萨,
从前常跟着四舅母坐motor去的巴萨。。。
说实话,还真的不是很热闹。。。
找到四舅母他们还真的很高兴。。。。
他们也蛮搞笑。。。哈哈。。。
旧时代的店屋,给我好熟悉的温暖感觉。。。

吃到rm 1.80的云吞面还真的兴奋,超便宜。。。
又吃鸡肉,鸭肉,猪肉。。。
好饱,将会很肥。。。

看会以前的照片。。。还蛮幸福。。。
妈以前也很美,很可爱。。。。肥肥的。。。

Thursday, November 27, 2008

谢谢

hmmm....因为不确定,因为要维护那无价值的自尊,因为要审查,而常常跟你定嘴,辩护。
其实,妈说的对,你是‘塞钱进我的口袋‘,你是为我好的。(之前不是不懂,而是没把他放大和摆在眼前)。我的无能,无心就要亏了自己。(这一个我还不完全承认,可是我却没有具体的东西去完全否认他)。其实也大该懂得。。。看着你的臭脸,真得想说‘对不起’(今天说了很多次,所有的过错都全浮在我脑海里。曾经这些过错,我都没有采取行动,今天总算要了决。)

有一样东西发生了,让我觉得我太幼稚。。。。

今天下午,我真得太烦躁,没有心要帮你煲汤,想切割完所有材料,可你又回来了,无心要去理你。

真的,人的脑袋和嘴巴是不和的。。。蛮疯刺也蛮好笑。。。

‘废话’,‘你要知道来干嘛’。。。真得不好听。。。不要从我的嘴巴出来。。。不可。。。

人有什么,我就要有什么。。。还蛮讨厌。。。可是回想起来,如果是小东西,无伤大雅的,为什么讨厌呢?纯遂不喜欢那动作还是对自己‘xua‘脾气。。。

我还蛮不醒目。。。。嘻嘻。。。。要看是怎么一回事了!

一种米养百种人。。。。做一个健康开心,不伤害他人的人吧!别人开心自己也会开心。。。

看过新娘的笑容,我也感觉幸福了!

Sunday, November 23, 2008

Haha ...sorry...Thanks....Behave...

Embarrassing and sobbing begin the first day morning in the week....

Recall how terrible the feeling of being naked capturing....Haha..few minutes later....now it seems all are small matters.

Causing noise in front of elder people while they are in conversation really embarrassed me...Call back the memory...yes, i was in fun with family...too excited...no other way to ensconce myself...too embarrassed of my action....Laughing to myself... Quite sarcastic...

Think back...ya..it is ok and good..at least a small action which is hard to be revealed by ourselves can be 'guided' and be better in future...This should be a price from God....haha

Yes, my cousin think that i'm a person who is always ignoring the surrounding environment....Writing until here, i stop awhile...I'm searching the past experience or records from my mind...Of course im better knowing myself. When i want to step in a person's world...yes, i care about everything about her....Otherwise, it is just a no harm to me...

Am i too not serious in my life? In between, mum you are the best..hehe.....Suddenly there is a voice came through my mind....My training is just a process, just want to finish, just want to bring less burdens, just want to pass it.....why it didts relate with my experience? I think i know the mindset that i hold...so suck.....Baby...Jelly Jack...All seem flowing water but it will leave a sign and space in your memory...People will not be lonely by having memory...Track back the life video...Baby

Yes...yummy yummy....A seafood buffet in Shang Li' A...Around rm 160 something per person include the 15% of tax...Thanks my cousin and his wife,fen fen....Anyway...it is a enjoyable Saturday night....

Saturday as well...I suddenly saw a scene where actually i experienced it as well...A scene where a parents describe a not behaved child in front their son...Is it this shows that the parents were rude? but sometimes, she maybe in depression and just want to deal her son temper...haha...I know all the parents moves will be the molds of the children moves in future...I'm not the good example but doesnt mean it isnt in future...

Friday, November 21, 2008

聰明女人吃出美麗

女人臉色好,脾健康是重要的,其次就是活血,只有這樣,臉色才會好看,讓你由內而外的有光彩。下面就是一些食療美容的方法,都比較簡單,大家可以堅持做下去,相信會讓你煥然一新哦!


豬蹄皮凍

這個做法很簡單,就是到超市裏買新鮮的豬蹄,也就是豬腳。洗乾淨後先用熱水燙一下,然後撈出,倒入半鍋的水,加一些紅棗,枸杞然後小火慢燉,大約一個小時後,湯就會變的黃黃的,加鹽,雞精,蔥末就可以。喝完湯之後呢,把吃剩的豬蹄打理一下,就是把骨頭都剔掉,留下一些你吃不掉的蹄,把這些豬蹄再放回鍋裏跟剩下的湯再著一會,然後撈出來,裝在一個平口的盤子中,套上保鮮膜,放在冰箱的冷凍層裏,之後的時間裏你可以經常看一下它的情況,大約15-20分鐘左右,你就可以拿出來了。它已經成了軟軟的皮凍。然後用刀切成若干小快你就可以品嘗了。豬蹄含豐富的膠原蛋白,可保持皮膚彈性,減少皺紋,保持好氣色。這個湯呢,一個星期喝一次,堅持下去,你就會有驚喜哦。我喝了快1年了,覺的很有效果。


四物湯

很多MM在月經的時候可能都會肚子疼臉色蒼白的,我以前就是這樣,後來我嫂子給我介紹了這個湯,她是廣東人特別會褒湯呢!所以現在就有很大改善,而且喝了之後可以滋潤皮膚,臉色特別的好,大家記好:生地(用手抓一小把),黨參6-8條,枸杞40-50粒,當歸(3-5片),這些材料中藥店裏都可以買的到,然後跟豬骨放在一起褒湯,大約褒40分鍾小火,就差不多了,記住是小火。這個湯呢補血補氣,溫暖子宮(呵呵,不太好意思),效果呢我就不吹牛了,希望可以得到JM的讚揚。MC前3天,之後3天喝。


銀耳百合雪梨糖水

這個糖水呢特別適合秋冬乾燥的時候喝,從內而外的滋潤乾燥的皮膚,喝了之後皮膚會水水的,我本來就滿喜歡吃梨的,所以我好象想起來就會做著吃。材料呢就是:雪梨一個,銀耳4-6片(用水先泡20分鐘,去掉黃梗),百合6-10片就可以了,把梨切成快狀,可以大一些,大約切成4大快就好。然後放在一起煮,大約20-30分鐘就可以,你要勤快點經常看它的情況……如果你喜歡甜,就放冰糖,其實不放已經滿甜的啦,因為有梨嗎,呵呵,不過我一般都是放冰糖的,我喜歡甜甜的,有種幸福的感覺……百合不用吃下去,銀耳呢,看個人喜好啦,我一般都是吃下去的。這個呢和我之後介紹的枸杞銀耳湯功效差不多,你可以一個星期喝枸杞銀耳一個星期喝雪梨這個,搭配比較合理。


醋姜豬蹄

這個呢比較適合想胖一點的MM,這個湯呢很補,我嫂子做月子的時候就喝這個湯,能很快的恢復體力,還可以去皺補血,是個超級養顏的好東西,臉色會很紅潤,但是不是說怕胖的MM就不可以喝,可以,只是不要晚上喝,一個星期一次就可以,不要天天喝。材料:豬蹄2-3個,大約6-7片姜。姜其實是要大量的放,但是姜放的多了,在加上水煮,湯就會很辣,所以還是少放點,香醋呢,兩勺,這個可是關鍵哦,醋本來就是美容的,在燉在豬蹄裏,效果自然不用說的啦。放在一起煮小火,時間長一些,因為你要把豬蹄煮的爛一些,大約一個小時就可以了,你要是吃不慣酸就放一勺紅塘,酸酸甜甜的味道很是不錯。當然你要是不喜歡甜也不喜歡酸,那就放一些蔥,香菜,也是不錯的味道。我嫂子現在臉色特別好,可能就是哪個時候保養的好。她喝的時候我就經常沾光可以喝的到,所以我推薦給大家,希望大家也能紅紅潤潤的。


魚肉豆腐湯

魚可是個好東西,富含豐富的營養物質,各種維生素,喜歡吃魚的MM相信皮膚都不錯的。豆腐,自然啦,美白的極品。愛美白MM我推薦這個湯。一條黃魚,這個魚可能一般的地方買不到,如果沒有鯽魚也是不錯的選擇,就是刺很多,黃魚其實也不少,呵呵。一塊韌豆腐,超市裏有的賣,不要買一般的,買盒裝的。然後先把魚收拾乾淨放入鍋裏燉,小火,燉到魚肉已經熟的時候(你可以用筷子感覺一下),在放豆腐,大約燉上10分鐘就可以差不多,這時候你的廚房相信已經是鮮美的魚湯的味道了,在放鹽,雞精調味,放蔥末香菜,恩,一鍋美容又美味的魚湯就出鍋了,味道真的是鮮美。這個呢,比較大眾化,一般的都會做。


枸杞銀耳湯

枸杞和銀耳都是我們知道的很好的食品,兩者搭配偏效果很是不錯。先把銀耳泡在碗裏10分鐘,然後把銀耳放在鍋裏小火頓10分鐘,然後加入10-15個枸杞,兩者一起煮10-15分鐘,加入冰糖,直到湯液粘稠,便可倒出來晾涼,然後你就可以喝了。剛開始可能不太喜歡吃銀耳,吃習慣了你就會喜歡上它。如果一次喝不完可以放在冰箱裏,沒天喝一點。冬天的時候就要熱一下再喝了。這個湯有美白的作用……


紅棗桂圓蓮子百合枸杞糖水

這款糖水補血又滋潤。一年四季都適合,最好用新鮮百合和蓮子。紅棗要去核,這樣才不會熱氣。喝了血色好,我一般煲三天分量,紅棗15-20粒,記得去核,桂圓20粒,新鮮蓮子20顆,新鮮百合兩個,若是幹貨,大約20片左右,枸杞40粒。煲25分鐘就可以了。這個可以直接煮,不用蒸,偶大約每星期煲一次,每次一大鍋,喝不完放冰箱,連續喝幾天。

女性的[四要一不]

女性族群提出「四要一不」的快樂法則:
1.要有健康的身體,享受生活美食無負擔
2.要有足夠的經濟基礎,無後顧之憂更自在
3.要有麻吉好友相伴,共享樂共患難不怕孤單
4.要學會和自己相處,挖掘自己的才華盡情發揮
5.不在意社會眼光,堅持勇敢活出個人價值

世界上十大瀕臨消失的景點

在我們這個美麗而又脆弱的星球上,有些景點隨著環境的惡化正面臨著瀕臨消失的危險,《今日美國》爲大家列出了世界上十大瀕臨消失的景點。


環球時報5月27日報道張愛玲曾說過:“出名要趁早呀,來得太晚,快樂也不那麽痛快。個人即使等得及,時代是倉促的。”在我們這個美麗而又脆弱的星球上,有些景點隨著環境的惡化正面臨著瀕臨消失的危險。要想去一睹芳容,卻也如出名一樣得趁早。今年的地球日來臨之際,《今日美國》爲大家列出了世界上十大瀕臨消失的景點。
1.法國夏蒙尼的波松冰河

全球變暖,世界範圍內的冰河都在急劇消失。在阿爾卑斯山脈,冰川消失得尤其顯著。在這裏,最漂亮的地方莫過於波松冰河,它位於法國與瑞士邊界上的夏蒙尼鎮附近。從步道入口上山,先走過一個滑雪場的斜坡再經過森林,我們便會看到這樣的景色:勃朗峰在黃昏的陽光下,白得有點像透明一樣。波松冰河自山頂流下,經過壁立千仞的垂直山壁,像被鋒利的刀切割過一樣。

2.南非克魯格國家公園的南非獅子棲息地

隨著棲息地的不斷減少、獵殺、疾病和近親繁殖等因素,非洲獅的數目不斷減少。到2006年爲止,據估計整個非洲大陸的所剩下的獅子不到5萬頭。如果你想去一睹非洲獅的雄姿,不妨去南非最大的野生動物保護區———克魯格國家公園,在那裏的旅館呆上幾天,乘著四輪驅動敞篷吉普車穿梭在非洲莽原上找尋各種野生動物:大象、長頸鹿、土狼,當然還有百獸之王———獅子,你將爲非洲大陸的神奇而驚奇地睜大眼睛。

3.哥斯達黎加的蒙特維多雲霧森林
在中美洲的這塊土地上,雲霧森林的規模是如此之大,如此郁郁蔥蔥,不禁令人開始敬畏大自然。你要是現在來到這裏,還可以在雲霧森林裏徒步旅行,在一條由六座置身於森林之上的吊橋而構成的“天路”上步行,就像置身於一座宏偉的綠色教堂一樣。蒙特維多雲霧森林正面臨著氣候變化和采伐森林的威脅。

4.美國南佛羅裏達的大沼澤地國家公園
被稱爲“一條被草覆蓋的河從內地緩緩流向海洋”的大沼澤地國家公園位於美國佛羅裏達州的南端。在這裏,無論是步行、乘坐獨木舟、坐船還是乘坐纜車,都可以很好地觀察野生動物,其中包括美洲鱷和許多溫順而好客的鳥類。但隨著墾荒和農業的發展大量消耗了大量生態系統的水,大沼澤地的面積正在逐漸萎縮。雖然美國聯邦政府在2000年啓動了一項修複計劃,大沼澤地還是正在逐漸從我們的視野裏消失。

5.乞力馬紮羅山的雪頂

在世界七大洲的最高點當中,只有非洲的乞力馬紮羅山是一般人都可以攀登上去的。近年來,乞力馬紮羅山頂的積雪融化,冰川退縮非常嚴重,嚴重威脅到“雪冠”的存在。在“雪冠”尚存的現如今,來自世界各地的人們正在湧向乞力馬紮羅山。位於坦桑尼亞莫希鎮附近的馬蘭古酒店是最好的觀景點。
6.印度尼西亞的檀中埠廷國家公園
檀中埠廷國家公園位於婆羅洲上,這是一個被印尼、馬來西亞和文萊三國共同分割的島。這個世界第三大島上的生物多樣性令人吃驚。由於采伐和墾荒,在這裏居住的猩猩和其他許多野生動物正面臨著雨林棲息地減少的危險。倘若你現在去,最好的觀察野生動物的地方,就在位於婆羅洲島南部海岸線上的檀中埠廷野生動物保護國家公園。

7.印度阿格拉市的泰姬陵

泰姬陵建於17世紀,衆所周知是莫臥兒帝國第五代皇帝沙·賈汗爲其最心愛的女人所建,後者在分娩中不幸死去。在許多人所列的旅遊清單裏,泰姬陵是“離世前肯定要去的地方”之一。但是由於在阿格拉地區有著200多家鑄鐵廠,這座世界上最爲著名的陵墓正在遭受煤煙、煙塵和酸雨的嚴重威脅。遊覽泰姬陵最好的時間在一日之晨,初升的太陽讓整個神殿沐浴在一片粉紅色之中。

8.位於加拿大馬尼托巴省丘吉爾小鎮的哈德遜灣北極熊棲息地

加拿大和阿拉斯加的北極熊生活在海冰上,但是全球變暖正在加速冰塊的融化,北極熊的棲息地也在逐漸減少。想去野外看北極熊的話,就在秋天去馬尼托巴省北部,這時剛好是北極熊開始捕食海豹的季節。最好的觀景路線就是從丘吉爾鎮出發前往瓦普斯克國家公園。

9.澳大利亞的大堡礁
大堡礁是澳大利亞最受遊客歡迎的旅遊目的地,也是唯一可在外太空中可見到的生命有機體。但是隨著全球水溫的逐漸上升和酸化,大堡礁正在慢慢消失。有科學家就認爲大堡礁將在20年之內消亡。去體驗這一自然奇觀的最好地點在位於辛奇布魯克島上的環保酒店———原野酒店,這裏提供有獨木舟、釣魚用具和潛水裝備。
10.美國路易斯安那州的阿查法拉亞盆地
路易斯安那州的海岸鹽沼地和密西西比河充當著緩沖器的作用,保護著美國的新奧爾良和其他的海岸城鎮免受颶風和暴雨的侵襲。但是在路易斯安那州,每年有著25平方英裏的三角洲沼澤地被大海所侵蝕。要想去遊覽阿查法拉亞盆地的話,拉法亞特小鎮是個不錯的出發點。這是一條讓你夢寐以求的長沼,這裏有生存至今的古代植物———沼澤柏、短吻鱷,還號稱是美國最好的釣魚之地。




*** 本文來自於網路轉載 ***

Thursday, November 20, 2008

Oh funny

Haha....a funny accident in pdrm lift...
I'm the maker uhhhh...
Cute, one star tuan really impress me...he is cute...hehe
im cute as well...
hehe stupid....

Please dont stop the music

Haha....please dont stop the music.....

music...muacks...

Have a safe journey of you all way back home for those, my friends who back hometown this week....muacks...and do your fyp hor...

Wednesday, November 19, 2008

我是不是其中一个?

因為許多人往往都是自私地站在自己的立場去想、去做
我是不是其中一个?

hippiyaya

HC 的兔兔。。。
我要。。。
嘻嘻。。。

cy看到我啦。。。
muacks.....

all babies....muacks,muacks,muacks....

suddenly want to kiss my friends....

if wan khay,jessica....they here..sure want to hug and give a flying kiss to them....cham lor..am i mad?

never mind..it is happy feeling...

3 ta bu

Sad, disappointed,protected.....hey be positive....what he said is for my own good....what a kind of good heart.....hehe

i want to state it out.....uhhhhhh

1st ta bu:
Notebook event....Too shamed to speak out...I know that is my wrong and im grad to say it was happening as well because it is too impressing me to prevent from getting undesirable things happen in future...Finally, i really appreciate and learn and able to face this fault...Jz shamed to describe it...Sorry ....

2nd ta bu:
Heart...Doing and tackling everything without the sincere sense ....some say as 'no use heart' in the matters of socialise and accomplish things.In term of socialism, yes, i improve more feeling on few people, at least,i smile sincerely with them...really hahaha....But it takes quite a long time which will not be believed by my friends......haha......Dont worry....i still want to be honest to everybody....hehe...In term of work, yes, i have no mood to do it alone...It is all be fixed in my mind....nothing fresh to me...feel boring with it....haiz...my fault lar....

3rd ta bu:
unknown.......

Im hate those who say :
1)better not to say since i said it many times (while im still empty in my mind....like all the guilts are put on me while im still blur with it and just know there are something bad happen and i want to get it right)....Sometimes, i analyse myself if they did say many times obviously until they are tired and i can realize that 'mistake', sure i want to solve it, otherwise, sure i know what is my heart truly telling me. In this world, only myself know my heart...If there are any problems, sicks....im the only one who know and take actions or tell the doctors or what....Respect and believe what i should believe......

2)Dont always act mysterious.....Im panic to get things right, but you are the one who obstruct me althoought you have experiences on how is the human being....But dont treat all the same...(never mind, sometimes it should have negative things happen to challenge and strengthen our strength)...Besides, i also can think too much possible or even are you kidding with me since im not so well adapted your emotion switching while im dreaming and fainted in car....

3)"no related","no meaning","what for you want to know"....how come a simple conversation will include such sentence?....i wonder and wont take this sentence in my conversation as i have experienced the weird of it....

haha...we all are learning....no one is perfect...to be honest...he is still a good person and deserve to enjoy every moments of his life....im also sturbon..hehe..just want to make good decision,good move...regret will only be suffered by me not others....so ..no regret....

Tuesday, November 18, 2008

honest to my life

:)
yes,actually, it is comfortable to be honest..

Honest to my friends who i love.
Tell them why i cant get call...i'm happy when hearing my friends thought i was disappear since they cant call me or find me...i feel care and love from them..I want to tell them how im so happy about the trip and always curious and happy to know how many to go and who go to the trip...In addition, i also think of how to tackle if the group is separated in small group..how??im worry and dislike it to happen...but i know sure it will be like that...No..think positive...this time may be different....Besides, i want to share with you all about my future plan, my mindset or even want to zoom in you all good characters that make me feel fantastics and wonderful....And go back to our OLDEN DAYS...how do we maintain that kind of mood and feeling..:)

Honest to my family
Haha...tell them what im doing.What kind of fault did i do. How they think of it....Praise them and care them..hehe...talk with them is the most wonderful things no matter they are in quarrel mood...haha

After reading HZ blogs...yes, i need to appologize to alot of people....First, my lovely cousin family,his wife,fen fen,kai wen and wei yue....sorry and thanks...Sorry to my colleagues as well...sorry for not giving my passion on them...sorry for not giving fun on you....

Furthermore, HZ blogs also excite me to join into jogarthon...i wish i can make it in future...Last time,i always jz play the role of PBSM member,a duty of helping those participants......i miss that time...i want to be one of the participants also....now haha i know my stamina is weaker than last time...especially i have been falling from hill while climbing down...Reading her 7 things...good job not to reveal the lier...Besides, she or he may not be lier also...Sometime, dont simply judge a person by a look or evidence...Sometimes, we may get wrong on her or he since our thinkings are still narrow....

Ehhh....haha..i want keh po to ask cw gf forgive cw...bacause i can feel his sincere during reading his blogs...This is one of the moments that need to go through....haha happy angels ~~~~

Yi~~~~cy become more beautiful wohhh.....haha....sometimes, i think her beauty may come from her characters....i know her characters more from her blog..hehe

Hmmm...need to do my fyp tim..nevermind...do it...kill it....attack~~~~~

Thursday, November 13, 2008

爱一人

如果你不爱一个人,
请放手.
好让别人有机会爱她.
如果你爱的人放弃了你,
请放开自己,
好让自己有机会爱别人.
有的东西你再喜欢也不会属于你的,
有的东西你再留恋也注定要放弃的.
人生中有许多种 .
但别让自己为一种伤害.
有些缘分是注定要失去的,
有些缘分是永远都不会有好结果的,
爱一个人不一定要拥有,
但拥有一个人就一定要好好的去爱她.
男人哭了是因为他真的爱了.
女人哭了是因为她真的放弃了.

如果真诚是一种伤害,
我选择谎言;
如果谎言一种伤害,
我选择沉默;
如果沉默是一种伤害,
我选择离开.

如果失去是苦,
你怕不怕付出 ,
如果迷乱是苦,
你会不会选择结束,
如果追求是苦,
你会不会选择执迷不悟 ,
如果分离是苦,
你要向谁倾诉,
好多事情都是后来才看清楚,
好多事情当时一点也不觉得苦!!!!


***爱&缘分***
1.她無聊時陪她〃
2.她難過時安慰她〃
3.男生要主動點〃
4.多約女友出去〃
5.不能讓女友主動約〃
6.讓她每天都開心愉快〃
7.要好好對待女友〃
8.順從女友的意〃
9.不要讓她傷心難過〃
10.當她被欺負要立刻去保護她〃
11.不要隱瞞女友事情〃
12.不能背叛女友〃

我只对一提!!!

1。有两个人到海边去玩,突然有一个人被一阵浪。卷走了,被卷走的人叫小明,剩下的那个人叫什么?

2。透明的剑是什么剑?

3。有一只小白猫掉进河里了,一只小黑猫把它救了上来,请问:小白猫上岸后的第一句话是什么?

4。是太阳叫公鸡起床还是公鸡叫太阳起床?

5。五成熟的牛排碰到八成熟的牛排,它们为什么不打招呼?

6。一个人从四楼掉下来跟从四十楼掉下来,有什么不同?



揭晓答案
1。叫救命
2。看不见(剑)
3 。喵~
4。是公鸡,因为太阳不会叫
5。因为它们不熟
6。一个是:嘭 ——啊,一个是:啊——嘭

近视吗?


Wednesday, November 12, 2008

Disappointed

Yesterday, i have comfirmed that my original room is applied successfully by first year student...I was so unhappy and disappointed. Writting reserved letter, getting table and hangers inside the room, cleaning the room, sparsing the keys....Now all these things are useless...

However, i need to think positvely...I may need to change new environment... May be this is quite hard to change the new environment after setting our own new house in mind but this is life. There is always alot uncertainty happen around us. Although i have no good impressions about the new room include the toilet and cleaning equipements, but i need to believe that it will bring some good things to me. Be positive. Change environment doesnt mean it will be bad...All are depending on our thinking.

There are somethings that we can control and we cant control in our life. There are alot of things that we cant control especially it involves too much third party or so on.. However, we should be good in controlling the minor that we are able to do it. This include our emotion and thinking. At least, we should take well control in our emotion,always smiles and be polite. Take well control on thinking, always think positively while live in this world.

Healthy Lifestyle

Oh Jesus, how come there are a lot beauties who are quite aging still can maintain their fairness and smoothness of their skins and bodies.

After some reading, i plan something for my future lifestyle and it may be executed tomorrow as well.Hope so...

less salt,sweet
more vitamin c,red vine,omega3

Wake up:5.30am
school work

Morning:(3 hours prepared)
  • yoga
  • jogging/dancing
  • breakfast with protein,vege and fruits(apple),omega3
  • massage
  • keep the freshness of skin and having UV protection

Lunch:

  • lunch
  • vege and fruits

Dinner:

  • dinner
  • vege and fruits(apple)

Bath:

  • sand
  • body syampoo moist
  • massage
  • lotion
  • mask
  • face freshness

Sleep:(10.30pm)

  • yoga
  • red vine
  • face freshness

Sunday, November 9, 2008

Growth

Today i just read some blogs. Some of them are from my friends and some are not. However, i found out and learnt alot through them.

I feel a wonderland in the blog world. It shows another strange world to myself. There are good and bad emotions as well.

I furtherly know the interesting of blogging...It is really fantastics...touch me a lot.

I can see the growth of my friends...What has happened on them....what makes them happy...

This is a good motion to change my life as well...

I also saw a cute girl from my friend's blog...I has never done the things that the girls done before...

I know i'm a weak and selfish girl...

However, i also know that i always find something to depend, never learnt to be independent....

I'm also a lucky girl, less fallen in my life until now althought this is unknown element for future as well...

I'm prepared to face it no matter what.

I want to be a hard and soft girl in right time...I want to express myself to this world in order not to keep myself in a narrow world. I want to know more people and achieve more success in my life...

Never afraid of being in front...

Be sincere...

Monday, October 20, 2008

Forward:男人最看不惯女人哪几点?

古代女人以柔为美,以刚为次,若是男女婚配,也得求个八字相合,为的是有个好兆头,相生相合才能和和美美嘛。当今,男女平等,驰骋职场,巾帼不让须眉的并不少见。性别和穿着的差异,似乎也越来越不明显。君不信看看,大热天的,大街上那穿背心的,吊带裙的、短裤装的、好多都是女孩子,而在以前这许多都是男人的所为。女以柔为美似乎也渐行渐远。社会进步了,男女的性别以及个性差异似乎也在逐渐缩短距离。
尽管这种差异正在不明显化,但男女有别,始终还是存在。男人与女人之间的话题,似乎也永远都说不完。有一次,一群朋友聚餐,闲聊间,不知哪位男同胞说起了他单位里的某位女职员如何如何,于是引发了一场大讨论。讨论的话题就是:男人最看不惯女人哪点呢?讨论的结果,主要有以下七点:
一、男人最看不惯女人欲望太强、虚荣心膨胀。这种人,首先不掂量一下自己几斤几两,而是追求不切实际的,甚至是自不量力的东西。站在此山,望着那山高,似乎有着无休止的欲望。这种女人,你如果和她生活在一起,说得好听就是有来自于她所给予的追求上进的“动力”,说得不好听的,就整一个“累”字。
二、男人最看不惯女人稍微有点成绩就飞扬拔唳,不可一世。也许有的女人在职场上春风得意,指挥惯了,回到家里依然做出一副领导的样子,高高在上的模样,对家人气指颐使的,仿佛其他人通通是她的下属。
三、男人最看不惯女人把爱美的好事弄成“东施效颦”。爱美之心人皆有之,相貌平平本无可厚非,却偏偏喜欢不讲轻重的浓妆艳抹,不讲得体的奇装异服,若是打扮得有点品味的那倒赏心悦目,但往往结果不是西施再现,而是东施效颦。
四、男人最看不惯女人找了个男友,或是嫁了个丈夫,就理所当然地视之为长期饭票。让男人当温室里的花儿养起来的女人不是没有,前提是他必须心甘情愿。若然不是大富大贵,而是普通平凡人家,对于这种满心想着吃好穿好玩好、钱来伸手、饭来张口的女人,男人反感之余,自然会敬而远之。
五、男人最看不惯女人的矫揉造作,扭捏作态。自然之美,如出水的莲花般清纯,如潺潺流水般的自然,或许没能看上一眼就被“电”到,却自有一番端庄耐品的味道;矫揉造作,刻意柔媚之人,即便眼珠滴溜溜转,秋波眼神左抛右送,虽说也有一番风情,却也显得有些轻浮而庸俗。至多只能与“悦目”沾边而绝对达不到“赏心”。
六、男人最看不惯女人把相貌当气质,把身材当素质。自以为有一张西施般的美脸,有一个姣好的身材,就是气质、素质俱佳的人。乍看上去似乎还能算上“美女”一族,哪料从那樱桃般的小嘴飞出来的话语,却给人有一种要吐的感觉,那还有什么素质可言?感觉更像一只有着金色外衣的大头苍蝇。
七、男人最看不惯女人小题大做、虚张声势。偶尔表现一下女人的娇弱之态,自当可以招来男人的怜香惜玉之感;如果常常是小题大做,男人大多也不怎么会当一回事儿。哪天男人晚点回家,就查根问底,故作惊讶,小题大做。男人在电脑前时间长些了,就说得特别严重,可别成为超级网虫啦,可别搞什么网恋啦,唠叨不已。本是很小的一件事情,经她这么一渲染,显然严重得多。在男人眼里,如此阵仗,至于吗?!

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i do agree and i will try to avoid from being that kind of characters or attitudes.

Gambateh....

犯错 (转载:看不惯)

转载:
我还是做不到圆滑,对身边一些事情还是难以掩饰厌恶之情。实在是无法做到明知这个人他们的水平不行老是在领导面前装样子还假装不知道去和他闲聊瞎扯。这么多年来已经养成一种骄傲的情绪,我甚至不想和这样的人多呆一分钟,更不要说与他共事。每天听到他絮絮叨叨的声音,我感觉耳膜都快要烂掉,脑浆都要湓出来!我真是无法明白这个世界里的这些人是怎么面对自己这副假面具的,难道他们不累么?难道他们每天做着违心的事情,良心上过得去么?难道他们把我们这些人当傻子么,以为我们看不出来么?唉……世界真是奇妙,换了要是我知道别人这样看我,一定死的心都有!不过话又说回来,正是有了这些人,才对比出来我们这些正气凛然,视丑恶为仇恨的人!有屎才有香水,有阳痿才有猛男,有飞机才有行货!我这样说道。
不过佛和我说这样是不对的。佛说,不二法门,不能说他们龌龊你就是正直,这样一对比,人就生出了高低贵贱,心就生出了烦恼。我说,我明白这个道理,但我做不到。佛说,你还不成熟,你还看不透,你还是你!我说,那我怎样才算是看破?佛说,放下。我说,我放不下,因为我还有欲望,因为我要超越这些败类。佛说,你要放下,才能超越,无欲则刚!我说,要是我没有欲望,那为何要把自己搞得刚。佛说,刚在心,心外无物无所著,是为刚。我说,扯淡!佛说,不许讲粗野话!我说,凭什么我这就是粗野话!佛,……
我渐渐开始相信那个谁主张的性本恶论。小时候为了要一个玩具,或者一个奶头,我们可以和兄弟姐妹干起来。那时候我们懂什么,所做的一切皆是本能。我开始相信人出身就是一个魔鬼,是在后来的教化中,被道德伦理规训了下来,被灌输了什么是好什么是坏。于是在道德方面教材的影响下,多少前辈贤人说人性本善,那只是他的希望,包括他的结论,都是这个社会几千年来的规训。人终究是自私的,只是表现在不同方面而已。像前面那种人,就是自私于自己的前程,像我这种人,就是自私于自己心灵的纯净。《追风筝的人》里面阿米尔的爸爸说,世间所有的罪都是偷窃的变种,杀人就是偷取别人活着的权利,偷情就是偷取别人丈夫或妻子被爱的权利。我非常认同这个说法。上面提到的那种人也就是一个小偷,偷去了大家公平竞争的权利,偷去了我们辛苦工作本该得到领导重视的机会!而我也是小偷,我在这里暗地里骂他就偷去了他行为自由的权利……这个世界人人都是小偷,人人都在偷别人也被别人偷,因为我们不是圣人,我们很少有人能够做到无欲则刚,而真正做到了的,比如那些弃家而去的和尚,却又偷去了他的妻子希望和她爱的人生活的权利以及他的孩子得到父爱的权利。冤冤相报何时了,世间本无一物,因欲而生,欲望生生不息,恶则轮回不止。唉……我怎样才能看透,即使看不透,我怎样才能睁一只眼闭一只眼,高人,指点我一下好不咯!


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i read this article because i just did something wrong which is very selfish and can be said as thief. What i have done have cause somebody disappointed...i know...Sorry for that ...and sorry for myself because i feel guilty...I try to find some positive articles which lead me to be having positive thinking on what i have done... Yes... it is not bad to make mistake as long as it is not too seriously effect other else. In fact, it can be as a warning, alert or lesson before making the worst result.

After reading this article, i found out there is a same concept with Jesus, where Jesus says, believe in Him, just in Him, nothing else besides of Him. You will always in joys. It seems like what the article said '无欲则刚'. I agree...Or i should say i understand from now on. A sister told me before, Jesus always arrange some environment to gain you back, or open your eyes and heart to Him. I believe it more than before. Thanks Jesus for being with me. Sorry for that i have been abondoned you some time.

Others, such as studying, working or ...all are my responsibilites...I will handle it while being with you.

A brand new life is starting from now. Hui cze, you are also one of my happy life source. Thanks. My best friends, i'm not a perfect person but i will try to be the one that you should trust with. Please give me some time.

Monday, August 18, 2008

恢复,幸运

恢复了以前单身的生活
也算幸运的一种。

我的预感还是没差,
事情的发生就如我所想,
一点新鲜感都没有,
真乏味。

他的决定是对的,
他做了一些我不敢做的事,
他帮了我。
也帮了我解决了一些麻烦琐碎的事情。
虽然,
与他发生了一些危险的关系,
可是却很幸运的把我从堕落拉了回来。
感情没有太深,
没有眼泪,
没有伤心,
这一切一切说回来还真得要感激他,
感激他和以爱让我弄清了自己的问题,
一个与david的感情里不被发觉的问题。
谢谢!


妈,
真如你所愿,
还好一切都归回原位,
放心吧!
。。。。。哈哈,傻瓜!

Sunday, August 17, 2008

只从那一次电话,
他就没有音讯了,
有点失望。
可是是我想太多吗?
他是真的忙吗?
我的直接真得让人吃不消?
没关系,笑吧!我还是最美的!
嘻嘻!还真的自恋!

马来西亚全军覆没了!
失望!

一切都会过去的,
努力,
加油!
太阳就在我的身边!

FYP 啊!
Helpdesk 啊!
Training Report 啊!
Presentation 啊!
来吧!不怕你!

新手机,
快来过来!
哈哈!

爸,
为了我,
要照顾自己的健康与安全,
我不要为你流眼泪,
我不要,
我还要你,
不要离开我!

Saturday, August 16, 2008

结婚

前男友,
结婚了。
前朋友男友,
结婚了。

有点要晕倒。
真的怀疑他们准备了吗

恋爱了吗?

8 月8日08年,
因为一个吻,
忘了该说什么,
也忘了该做什么,
冲动的作了这个决定,
也作了不该做的事(平时不会做的事),
真是傻瓜!
想开吧!
傻瓜未必不幸的!

告诉了家人,
才发觉他们竟比我还成熟与实际,
可能这就是所谓的恋爱是盲目的,
虽然有许多听不入耳的话,
可是他们真得很关心我,
告诉他们是对的。

‘爸,要找你吃饭!’
‘没有矜持啊?’
哈哈,这并不重要!
爸,你好可爱!

主耶稣,谢谢你保守我,才不让我做错事。谢谢!

世情如月。
无论缺圆,
都放送一眸深情,
让心淡定一方娴静,
这一刻,
不会因为月是缺而让自己多了凌乱,
是圆而多了张扬雀跃。